Dearest Grandma Jean,
I know you are up there looking down over
all of us with a huge smile across your face. You are smilin’ because you are
able to see all us gathered here to celebrate. Celebrate your life. Celebrate
the blessing that you have been to ALL of us. Celebrate the love that you and
Grandfather have instilled in every one of us. This is a true celebration.
As I grow older myself, I’m realizing that
this one life is really all that we get. It’s busy, beautiful, and blessed. I
know I’ve been spoiled having such AMAZING grandparents, as not every kid gets
to grow up with that kind of love and unconditional support. Trust me, I count
those blessings every single day. Blessings that will stay with me FOREVER and
blessings that I aim high to give to my own little ones. Blessings that, I
hope, one day they will be able to share with my grandchildren, because above
all, above all the money and material things in this world, love is what makes
things go round. Love and family are two of the many values you displayed on a continual
basis. And, I want to THANK YOU for being such an amazing role model. A role
model whose impact has trickled down every single branch on this huge family
tree of ours, eventually leading to all of those beautiful great-grandkids of
yours and beyond.
So, THANK YOU!
Thank you for ALWAYS being there to support
me. From the stands at just about every stinkin’ one of my hundreds of softball
games, watching and cheering, to every single Christmas celebration filled with
the warmth of home and smiles and laughter that gave me memories I will never,
ever forget. From our little, entertaining, once-a-year comical cousin skits to
the kid friendly games that my little ones loved being a part of. From high
school and college graduation ceremonies, to baby quilts capturing all that
special, little newborn information. From birthday cards sent to each and every
one of those always changing addresses, to “Goldies” that my kiddos had the
opportunity to drop into their own little piggy banks, with thoughts of Great
Grandma Jean & Grandfather on their minds. From long distance phone calls,
just saying “HI,” to the annual grandkid ornaments that will FOREVER hang on
our Christmas tree. From hotel room sharing and story swapping at the Get Busy
Livin’ events, to those Kodak moments you let me capture of you holding each
and every one of my little babies. From opening your heart and accepting Jason
as one of us, to those daffodils that will forever bloom in your memory. From
Arrowhead tailgating to that crystal, engraved “communication” bell that will
forever remind me to stride towards living a life full of all the qualities you
embodied.
So, I need to say farewell for now, with our
last moments together bringing a smile to my face. Moments that were good for
my soul. Moments that make me a better Mommy. Moments that make me a better
person. The moment you
and Ty played “balloon” from your chair. The moment you wiggled those toes when
I asked you if you wanted a foot massage. The moment you said you’d have to
“consider it” when I said I charged a lot for those massages. The moment we
snapped our last picture together. The moment Dad fed you ice chips and au jus
with at least three different spoons, thanks to Aunt Jan searching for the one
that worked the best. The moment Grandfather got those tears in his eyes as he
watched you take a drink. The moment his love for you couldn’t have gotten any
stronger. The moment we crossed paths with Uncle Denny and Aunt Val as we were
leaving, stopping for a quick hug, but knowing that you had more love and
support headed in to pick up right where we left off.
I love you so much Grandma Jean and will
miss you physically being around when we all get together, especially on April
27th. But, I won’t miss your spirit because I know it will never be
far away. So, go now, grab Dylan, Grandma Meier, and everyone else you’re
seeing again for the first time in a long time, give them a big hug around the
neck from all of us and smile. Smile having confidence in the footprints you
are leaving behind. For those footprints will forever lead us in the right
direction.